Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The Return

Alright, we last left you with the news that we have a departure date and it is the 8th. Well, today is the 15th.

America - Korea - China
meat market
Mommy and Me class
tai chi in the courtyard

A week since our return!

Yes, we would have written a blog post a week ago but, ugh, jet lag is so fun. Just recently  the older members of the family - Dad, Mom, and Jenna - have overcome most of the joy that is jet lag, the singular experience one faces after crossing the International Date Line, thus putting him/her back fifteen hours. For those who've traveled long and far before, you will understand what jet lag does to your productivity.

BUT, now we are fourteen days in and jet lag cannot drag us down nearly as much, giving us the wonderful opportunity to post on this blog. The Xi'an-Seoul flight (for some reason, the only way we found out of China from Xi'an was to first fly to Korea).was at 12:30 in the afternoon, so we set out to leave at 9:30. A 20-passenger bus, loaned courtesy of a friend :), drove us to the airport.

The biggest worry while pushing to board the Xi'an-Seoul flight (apart from the extra luggage we didn't know we had until, like, the 7th) was Brodie. An unfamiliar environment, strange sights, different sounds - it was too much for our little bichon-poodle mix. He whined and barked and yowled throughout the airport, never stopping regardless of what we did to calm him. "If he doesn't stop," someone said, "he can't board the plane."

Thankfully, after all our checked luggage was sent and our carry-ons went through the first part of security, we found Brodie stayed quite quiet when Baba held his case. Occasionally he let out small yips, but the most frequent he made with Baba carrying him was an anxious whine.

Xi'an to Seoul was three hours; Seoul to Los Angeles was eleven or so. Because of, as previously mentioned, the International Date Line, the second plane landed in California the same day the first plane took off in Shaanxi. Korean Air provided excellent service throughout both flights.



When the plane landed in L.A., we expected to be in immigration for Matthew and Brodie for at least an hour. Au contraire. We were out of the airport in an hour, maybe less. In fact, no one even examined Brodie's paperwork! Ah, the world is a strange, strange place.

Once out of the airport, Baba called the van we reserved (they weren't waiting for us, as we told them we'd probably be out long after the plane landed, what with the long immigration steps we expected), and 24-7 Ride drove us about 50 miles south. There, a friend from Baba's old small group offered his home for us to stay until we had permanent residence settled.

And that is where we are now.

I'm unsure how one is supposed to explain this... this being-back-after-four-years feeling. The simple places, like In-N-Out and Trader Joe's, seem so much larger and brighter. The commonplace bits of Southern California, like blue skies and clean air, are noticed every single breath. It's remarkable how things you haven't thought about in four years are suddenly there, and all the memories of them pour forth, and you sit there thinking, "How could I have forgotten about all this amazing-ness?"

Yes, we will miss China. We made home in both countries - America and China - so there will always be a bit of home on both sides of the world.

balloon at the lake

Shanghai (上海)
a wedding



But it truly is so wonderful to be back.

Our next step is to travel to New England to be with Derek, where he and his fiance wait for our return. To say the least, they've waited a while now.

~Abby
Now, please allow us a moment to reminiscence


for the first couple weeks
only 11

Who needs spoons anyways?
friends in the courtyard


young friends
Wei Hong
precious
a suiting name


A house is made of walls and beams; a home is built of love and dreams. ~William Arthur Ward, Thoughts of a Christian Optimist

Friday, July 4, 2014

Heading Home

July 8. This is not an extraordinary date, nothing national scheduled for this day. Any holidays are restricted to small areas of the world. Off the top of my head, I can think of nothing happening on July 8.

Oh wait, yes I can.

July 8 is the day we leave China. That is right, my friends, we have a departure date and it is only four days away. After three years and eleven months, uninterrupted, knowing when we're leaving, instead of vague comments that we should be leaving at so-and-so a time, is such a relief! So four days, great for our sanity, and then not. Our apartment isn't big, but we've found ways to use every space for something, which adds up to more belongings than we knew we had. Even four days before departure, so much remains.



a friend of four years
(Muslim Market)






saying goodbye


June 28 and 29 we had a moving sale, which cleared our apartment of some possessions, such as DVDs, furniture, craft/school supplies, et cetera, but still it all seems like SO MUCH. Hopefully more stuff will find new homes in the few days left. Until then, we're up to pack-pack-packing our apartment in suitcases.

To avoid the expensive cost of overweight baggage, and incredibly overweight baggage in general, we're using eleven boxes from Seven Seas Worldwide, a company that ships wherever you need to go. Yesterday they collected our boxes. The airline allows each of us, including Matthew, one 25-pound carry-on and two 50-pound suitcases. There are six of us (Dad, Mom, Jenna, Emma, Abby, Matthew), which means we can pack up to 750 pounds on the plane,s excluding the personal bag each of us is also allowed (should any family have 750 pounds worth the stuff). 

The airline is Korean Air. Our first flight is from Xi'an to Seoul, and the connecting flight is Seoul to Los Angeles. Because of the wacky time change from Asia to North America, we'll be landing in Los Angeles on the same day we leave Xi'an. Brodie (our poodle-bichon mix) has presented the most difficulty in our flight plans. The first ticket that was seriously considered had to be abandoned because that flight wouldn't accept dogs.


tai chi (太極拳)


not an everyday sight

Traveling with pets is a new experience. Only two or three pets are permitted on each flight, so we had to ensure he had a reserved place after we booked out tickets. Brodie is small enough to fit in a carrier to be placed under one of our seats, the safest option for him. He's required to have medical paperwork that says he's healthy, certifications that he's had the necessary shots, and all these lovely technicalities we've never dealt with before. (Good news we got all of Brodie's documents today for travel)
Brodie

Once we arrive in LAX, we'll have to deal with even more concerning the dog's entrance and Matthew's immigration, but I'm certain they'll pass whatever official evaluations L.A. needs to orchestrate without much trouble. Brodie's so spry and healthful, I don't know why he wouldn't be allowed. Dad and Jenna have contacted several friends who have traveled with dogs or know people who've traveled with dogs, so they know what Brodie needs and what to expect. As for Matthew, so long as all his paperwork is correct he should be fine, fine, fine. (As you can tell, I'm very optimistic about this particular area of the future.)

Once we step out of the airport the late afternoon of July 8 (or early/mid evening, if there are delays in flight, immigration, etc.), the future is as uncertain as the weather next week. We can have our predictions and expectations, but in the end we have to wait and trust in the Lord.



the view



     
Bell Tower



   
apple cart
    

We look forward to seeing all of our friends and family!

Post done by Rick & Abby

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Zachary's New Family/Return to America


Our Sweet Zachary

After being with us for almost a year, Zachary has moved on to another family, a wonderful Christian Chinese couple who have had experience with kids like him. It's been rocky for him, to say the least, but he is brave boy.  For more about Zachary's beginnings, read here. He would have been with us longer had it not been for our need to return to America, a trip he cannot take with us. The transition has been hard not only for him but also for us, as we all attached to him. However, we are still able to see him Sundays, when we take him to our house so his family can go to church.

The most recent plan for Zachary is to move him into a group home situated closer to our apartment complex, which should be better for him as we'll be able to visit him more often. We want him to know we're still part of his life, that we haven't abandoned him. It is possible that in the future we may try to adopt him. However, currently his orphanage refuses to process his paperwork because they have dubbed him not adoptable and unwanted. Sad and not true. Please pray for the wonderful little boy.

Zachary's 1st day with us. You can see how unhappy he was.

Where Zachary is from: Gulin area.

So skinny and still trying to figure out what is happening to him

Just hanging on

How he looks now

How he looked before



So happy!
Checking out what Matthew is doing on the iPod

Walking with a purpose









Returning To America


One of our good friends put this video together for us called miracles.  Please take a look.

The past three years and ten months in China has been a truly amazing journey for our whole family. So much has been accomplished since we stepped off the plane in August of 2010. One of the most wonderful life-changers was, without a doubt, the addition of a beautiful boy, Matthew, to our family. The adoption was completely legally in March, but he's been a part of the family since November 2010, since he was three months old.

The two biggest reasons we wanted to live in China were to share about our Lord and Savior and to work with orphans. Our long stay here, God has used us in many ways to accomplish both these goals. Many have heard and seen. I (Rick) have spoken at the local church and a local business. Many of the fatherless have come through our doors, short-term and long-term.

By just living here and talking with people, we have developed many lovely relationships. Our friendships range from local store owners, guards in the apartment complex, and workers who clean around our complex (we've even baked them fresh bread). Even the employees at Metro and Ren Ren Le recognize us when we go shopping. There's an opportunity to talk to someone every time.

All of this has been made possible first and foremost by God, and second by our friends and family at home and around the world. Without their prayers and financial support, none of this would have been possible. We are grateful beyond words to all who have been involved in our journey.

View from our apartment
Our visas expire at the end of July, so our plan is to return home before then. Matthew has to be back by September, when his immigrant visa expires. However, all this is still unknown. Please pray for God's plan for us and the next step in our journey.



The day we arrived in Xi'an

The Bell Tower downtown Xi'an
Easter 2014




Cheryl & Jenna

Shanghai


Local



Da Yan Ta


Rice fields in Guilin


The Big Goose Pagoda

Rickshaw on top of Xi'an's city wall

Tofu

The break of a fast (end of Ramadan)

Our friend's Grandmother


One of two weddings we were invited to



Wedding toast